Tips for Happy Life -- 4

Give up your self-defeating self-talk. 

Oh. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating Mindset? Don't believe everything that your mind is telling you especially if it's negative and self-defeating. You are better than that. 'The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.' Eckhart Tolle

Tips for Happy Life -- 3

Give up on blame. 

Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don't have, for what you feel or don't feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

Tips for Happy Life -- 2

Give up your need for control.

Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, co-workers, or just strangers you meet on the street just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel. 'By letting it go, it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.' 

Tips for Happy Life -- 1

This is indeed a brilliant article and needs to be read again and again ...

Here is a list of 15 things, which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and you'll feel much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering and instead of letting them all go and allowing ourselves to be stress-free and happy, we cling on to them. 

Well, not anymore. Starting today, will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go!

1.      Give up your need to always be right

There are so many of us who can't stand the idea of being wrong wanting to always be right even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain for us and for others. It's just not worth it. Whenever you feel the 'urgent' need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question from Dr. Wayne Dyer: 'Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?' What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

வட போச்சே

Sun Music Channel telecasts a program called “Vada Pooche”.  Trying to make this program like “Just for Laugh Gags” but many activities are looking very silly. The quality has to improve a lot. 

In other countries, people are taking this very lightly and I wonder how they are that much cool and never get irritated. Whether the way they live and respect others make it like this Or the entire program itself is a “Makeup” program?

நம்பிக்கை

சிறிய வயது நம்பிக்கைகள்

1.  தலை பிள்ளை மின்னலை பார்த்தால் கண் போய் விடும்

2.  முட்டிக் கொண்டால் கொம்பு முளைக்கும்

3.  கை அடியில் போனால் சிறங்கு வரும்

4.  ஆண்,பெண் குழந்தை சேர்ந்து விளையாடினால் காது அறுந்து விடும்

5.  எறும்பு தின்றால் கண் நன்றாக தெரியும்

6.  சாப்பிடும் போது கையைத் தரையில் ஊன்றிக் கொண்டு சாப்பிட்டால் நாம் சாப்பிடும் உணவின் சத்து கைவழியாக பூமிக்குப் போய்விடும்

7.  யானை சாணத்தை மிதித்தால் பணம் கிடைக்கும்
8.  கையால் தண்ணீர் எடுத்து அடுத்தவை மீது தெளித்தால் நகசுத்தி வரும்

9.  பல் விழுந்து விட்டால், அதை வானத்துக்கு காட்ட கூடாது. காட்டினால் பல் முளைக்காது.  விழுந்த பல்லை மண்ணில் புதைத்து வைக்க வேண்டும்.