How can one be sure that he is doing correct thing and leading a correct life? I gave a little thought on this.
Something correct to me may be wrong from the eyes of others. Then what is the measure and how to come to a conclusion to decide on my action?
Even if everyone says to look things by keeping your leg in other’s shoe, it is a difficult one and I am sure no one will do it. But instead of going into other’s shoe, one can think if the same action is done by our loved small kids how will I feel?
* If I am helping my friend and what will I feel if my son/daughter helps their friend in the same way?
* If I am a smoker & what will be my reaction if my son/daughter smokes?
* If I am hiding something & what will my reaction if my spouse hide something to me?
* If I love my family & how I will feel my family members also love each other?
In every case if answer is Yes or positive, I am doing correctly and if answer is NO or negative, it means I am doing something wrong.
One has to ask himself on every action especially all new actions about this to ensure correct living.
Second and important symptom for doing wrong thing is getting angry for nothing. You know you are doing something wrong and to hide it or to overcome it, naturally people will start getting angry with others.
There is human capability to analyse and correct himself/herself. Everything is possible in this world to correct if we understand the impact.
Forming a good family and culture is difficult and we have to ensure to uphold it till our end and it is our duty to on-pass and develops good culture with our children.
I am always right attitude never give happiness but submission & openness to others will certainly give happiness.
தவறு என்பது மறந்து செய்வது
தப்பு என்பது தெரிந்து செய்வது
தவறு செய்தால் திருந்தலாம், தப்பு செய்தால் வருந்த வேண்டிவரும்.
If one accumulates to do more and more wrong thing, the life will become
மானம் அழிந்து, மதி கெட்டு
போன திசை எல்லோர்க்கும் கள்வனாய்
ஏழ் பிறப்பும் தீயனாய்
நல்லார்க்கும் பொல்லனாய்
வாழ்வாய்
